Pinay mom parenting her Caucasian/Filipino daughter in suburban America.
A couple of mornings last week, I was out early in the morning and Jack had to get Mary ready for and take her to school. After the first time, I asked Mary how the morning went and she bitterly complained that Dad made her eat eggs and she did not like them.
(Jack and I both strive to always send off Mary to school with a good breakfast in her tummy— some good solid protein especially when all Mary wanted was cereal or a piece of brownie from last night.)
How does Mary like her eggs?
The way I like them.
And how is that?
The way MY mom always made them.
Fried, almost burnt edges, with a runny yolk.

Of course, when I was growing up, I questioned why Mom ALWAYS makes eggs this way. She would prepare 2-4 eggs and serve them family-style, in the center of the table. No one gets a whole egg, one would usually take part of one (a little bit of the white, some of the yolk) that would fit into the 2-bite pan de sal and have a little sandwich. Nobody is ever that hungry in the morning. For a family of seven, you’d think those eggs will be devoured in 2 seconds, but, no, usually there would be an egg and a half left congealing on the plate by the time everybody has gone off for their day.
But, Mom never cooked eggs scrambled, or over easy, or sunny side up or poached or hard-boiled. Always the same fried eggs. One may not be as burnt as the other, or the yolk will be well-cooked and not as runny… but always fried. I always thought, maybe it is the cast-iron skillet that my mom used over the gas stove which has only one setting— High— and my Mom. like any other busy mom, multi-tasks in the morning so she does not pay particular attention about the eggs cooking in the stove, hence the burnt edges.
Maybe, that is just the way she liked them.
Now, its the only way I would have them.


And it seems like, its the only way Mary likes them, too.
Mary is my "I'm Not a Baby!" daughter and this is my blog about her and our life in suburban America. Parenting tales, our travels and travails, forays into great and not-so-great restaurants, kitchen adventures--- all chronicled with as much photos as you can stand. Comments are very much appreciated --- let me know you dropped by! Thank you.
Gina
January 29th, 2008 at 7:58 pm
I am so surprised because Richard also wants his eggs like that with burn edges, we really will get something from our parents.
Val
January 29th, 2008 at 10:14 pm
Hahahaha. Mom still made her eggs that way. And I also love it if the whites are burnt. I never eat the yolk on a sunny side up (one fact u need to know abt me) especially if its runny, i only eat the whites. One thing I miss is when dad actually breaks an entire egg (raw) on hot rice… I used to like that. Now everybody had high blood pressure.

When u said a family of 7, I assumed I wasn’t born yet that time.
lceel
January 30th, 2008 at 10:32 am
My oldest son has been driving his girlfriend crazy because he likes soft-boiled (3 minute) eggs like I make and she can never get them right. I always made eggs for my boys (my wife hates eggs and would never make them) if we were going to have them. These are the same kind of eggs my Mom made for me.
Amy
January 30th, 2008 at 6:10 pm
I love fried eggs!! We need to reschedule our noodle date too!
raqgold
February 1st, 2008 at 3:02 am
i love my eggs fried both sides, no runny yolks, hehe. well, just like mom used to do it.
vcman88
February 8th, 2008 at 11:50 pm
Wow, that’s also the way I like my eggs cooked! Because that’s how Mom always cooks them. Which is how ‘Mama May’ cooked them. Just one of the examples of how our lola has passed on her ways of cooking even to our generation. That’s also the same with Mama’s hamburgers. (Ninang, maybe you could write about that sometime
Oh, and until now, there’s always an egg or half of an egg that is left at the plate. This leftover will be at the table until lunch and someone will always ‘take pity’ at the egg and just eat it. (Usually, it’s me