Pinay mom parenting her Caucasian/Filipino daughter in suburban America.
No, this is not how about Mary being a little Imelda with lots of shoes or her love of shoes.
Its about how shoes “accidentally” drop off from her feet when she gets in the car. Every time. As soon as she is strapped in her car seat, whatever shoes (sandals, crocs, tennis shoes…) she’s wearing? They drop to the floor.
Dad insists that Mary takes them off deliberately and should just stop doing it. Mary insists that the shoes just fall off by themselves. Me, I don’t mind as long as Mary puts them back on, with minimum delay, as soon as we get to our destination (which she rarely does and becomes the bone of contention between us.)
Mary explained to me what happens. We all know that she is a toe-walker — she stands, walks, runs on her tippy-toes about 90% of the time. She said that, as soon as she sits on her car seat, her feet points straight downward and the shoes just fall off. Sometimes, even her socks follow. Hmmm…
Like I said and like I have told Mary, unlike her Dad who insists the she keeps her shoes on in the car, I do not mind. As long as she gets them back on right away.
…We’re still working on that.
Mary is my "I'm Not a Baby!" daughter and this is my blog about her and our life in suburban America. Parenting tales, our travels and travails, forays into great and not-so-great restaurants, kitchen adventures--- all chronicled with as much photos as you can stand. Comments are very much appreciated --- let me know you dropped by! Thank you.
Manisha
February 29th, 2008 at 2:08 pm
It’ll get better as she grows older. Sneakers can’t fall off unless they weren’t worn properly in the first place but I understand her need to be free! It also helps to have one message come from the parents. However, your approach seems like a good compromise which takes into account what she wants. Does she do this on the school bus also? If not, then you know that she can keep them on!
Vannie
February 29th, 2008 at 6:55 pm
ur daughter is something!:) on her tippy toes? does she do ballet?
yah if it was me, i would not mind as well.as long as she puts it back on.
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thanks vilma,happy weekend!